What am I looking for?

If you are trying to figure out why I dislike dating and think that asking me what I am looking for will help you are mistaken. I know tons of people who date in tons of ways and who are looking for very different things and you know what they all hate it. The shidduch system is not to blame, the secular system is not to blame. My pickiness or lack there of is not to blame. Dating is hard, Period.
That being said, here is my perfect (or not so perfect) guy in a nutshell:
He has to be a sincere, open minded, open hearted guy, with somewhat of a personality and somewhat of an intelligent mind. He must love Yiddishkiet and strive to grow in some way or another. He can't be one of those people who looks to bend halacha to fit his needs but tries to live the other way around. He does not need major money (but a job or job prospect would be nice), movie star good looks or the mind of a rocket scientist. He needs a sense of humor of some sort (though all guys think they are funny and most aren't). He needs to love children. He need not live in Ny or aspire to do so. It would be nice if he wanted to give E"Y a try.
Basically I want a guy who is more appreciative than cynical. More mature than adolescent (not just in years). More forgiving than fault finding. And more aspiring then settling.
That being said, I want a human, not and I know we are all far from perfection. I really just want someone compatible with me (cause good on paper is only good to till you meet), which is hard to explain to those of you who don't know me but obvious to those of you who do. Hope that helps, let me know, k?
Have a great night children.